'She was a sour girl the day that she met me'
A friend recently asked me what I was looking for in a girl...
The question sounds simple enough... but it took me a little while to answer, because its not so much what I want in a girl, but what I need in a girl. Who doesn't want some big-tittied, hot as hell, super smart, all she wants to do is give me head kinda girl? Unfortunately they don't fucking exist... I've asked around, they don't.

And when I've thought I wanted something, and the girls had it, they've often lacked something I needed and the relationship has failed whether we like it or not. What I need is someone who is honest, intelligent, and willing to believe in me as much as I believe in them. Thats not too much to ask. That is until they have to actually deal with me as the dumbass I can be...

'she was a happy girl the day that she left me'

Examining my past relationships, the ones I've liked and the one's I still talk to all have one thing in common: open communication and a mutual respect not only for each other as a person, but also for our daily struggles to be the people we want to be... and i guess some innate (spelling?) desire to make me a better person either through effort (see christine) or through interacion (see carly)...

anyway, I could go on and on about what I want but that is not the point. The point is I have come to the conclussion that I actually have 'needs' in a relationship. I never thought I did, at least not some laundry list, though I am sure I just never asked my self the question before.
Its amazing the things in the back of our mind that we've yet to ask...